Every year I write a Christmas letter to friends and family but this year I missed the deadline! So, here is my New Years greeting for 2009!
Happy New Year 2009!
As you read this we hope you have all enjoyed a wonderful Christmas holiday with family and friends! I just didn’t get ready on time this year to send our annual Christmas letter before Christmas so here is our New Years greeting for 2009! We have had a very busy year filled with many memorable moments.
After 11 years abroad I moved back to Sweden and this time brought with me my family. The last ten years we have lived in several countries around the world and naturally talked a lot about Sweden. Last year we decided that if we wanted to give the children a chance to experience Sweden for real we would have to move now, before they get to old. We also wanted to experience something new and different and so we ended up in the small town of Ulricehamn located about an hour drive from Göteborg in the south of Sweden. I got a job as International coordinator at the municipality of Ulricehamn and Jochem is commuting between Sweden and the Netherlands.
During our Christmas holiday last year we bought a house in Ulricehamn and in January I travelled to Sweden with the girls to look at schools. In mid February I finished my work at the embassy in the Hague and a few days later the moving truck brought our belongings to our new home. Needless to say January was a crazy month and when we celebrated Ingrids 9th birthday in February we did so with 100 moving boxes in the living room!
On the 15 of February we arrived in Ulricehamn and two days later the builders arrived to start the renovation. After two weeks we realised that living in the house during the renovation was not ideal, so we moved out into a small cottage in the forest. Living in the forest in a winter landscape with foxes and deer walking by was quite an experience for us all. Naturally the renovation took a longer time then expected but in May we finally moved back to our new home. We now live in a typical Swedish red wooden house with a surrounding garden with apple and peer trees.
For the children this was a year of many changes and many new experiences. They go to a small Montessori school with 10 children in each class situated in a charming old brick building surrounded by a large park-like playground. Elsa (8) felt at home right away and has made some really good friends. For Ingrid (almost 10) the move was a bit more difficult but I think she has now settled in quite well enjoying school and different sports (soccer, golf, tennis). Nils (5) had some difficulty with the Swedish at first but now he speaks very well. The children spend a lot more time outside nowadays and we are all enjoying the beautiful nature surrounding Ulricehamn. We have tried to make use of all the sports opportunities here by taking up golf, skiing, sledding and this summer Jochem bought a boat. We also bought a summerhouse in Vegby, 15 km south of Ulricehamn situated 30 meters from a lake (hence the need of a boat :)!).
Summer went by too fast but we enjoyed the company of many visitors from Sweden, the Netherlands, India and South Africa. Great to see you all and thank you for coming!!! Next summer the renovation of our summerhouse will be finished and ready for more visitors! We had a fun family reunion in Stockholm in June where the children met up with their “Stockholm” siblings whom they had never met before. Ingrid and Elsa are now planning our next Stockholm trip, as they don’t want to loose contact with their newfound family :)!
Jochem started a second company in the Netherlands this fall (Apiron) and travelled quite a bit this year (to the US, Australia and Europe). I spend most of my time in Ulricehamn but had some time for visits to Belgium, the Netherlands and Latvia. I really like my job and work in a great team. We still have to work on expanding our social network but the people of Ulricehamn are friendly and helpful so I think we will be successful!
In a few days time we move into 2009. For us 2008 was an intense year and now it is time to enjoy life a bit more. Jochem will be working in France in 2009 but will go to China and Japan in February. Usually he spends 3 days abroad and 4 days in Sweden so the travelling is not too bad. 2008 was a baby boom year among family and friends. My sister Hanna gave birth to little Ellen in January and enjoyed this so much that she is going for a second one in May! Una, Arnold, Marlou, Felien and Siem also joined our world (and if I forgot someone I apologize!). Congratulations to all parents and newcomers!
We wish you all a great new year with lots of new and happy experiences!
Lots of love from all of us!
Ingrid, Elsa, Nils, Jochem and Ulrika Geeraedts
May 2013
in Ulricehamn
Sunday, December 28, 2008
Friday, December 12, 2008
Time and memorable moments!
I always thought it sounded corny when my parents used to say that ”time goes so fast” but nowadays I hear myself say the same thing. On this day five years ago I went into labor with Nils. Jochem sat in an airplane and I was home alone with Ingrid and Elsa. I knew that Jochem wouldn´t answer the phone but I still called him hoping that he would be able to land, drive from Brussels to Nijmegen and be in time before arrival. He was! 15 minutes before Nils decided to make an entrance he arrived dressed in a dark suit still holding his briefcase. Nils popped out and Jochem said – that went quick! (something I could not agree with and that has been up for discussion a number of times since then :)!)
Today we will celebrate Nils birthday with my parents and my sister and her family. We have landed in a wonderful winter landscape and Ulricehamn looks beautiful with its picturesque architecture, small snow covered streets and children pulling their slays. The dark falls early but all windows lit up in the dark and everyone has some kind of Christmas light in their windows. The girls would have like us to have the same type of stars as the majority of people but I am trying to convince them that being unique can also be something to strive for. Why is it that children find it so important to do things the same way as other people do?
Yesterday evening they celebrated Lucia at school to the great excitement of the children. We stood outside in the snow while the children sung Lucia carols and the parents were served warm Glögg. It was really cold but the engagement of the children made it a memorable moment. Unfortunately my phone camera did not cooperate!
At work I have been keeping busy with many applications and this week we had an international day for the politicians and higher civil servants which I think was appreciated. I feel that more and more people within the municipality are getting involved in international activities and projects which is great.
Tomorrow Jochem and I are heading for Kronovalls slott (a castle in the south of Sweden). It is not only five years since Nils was born! On the 14th of December it is our 10th wedding anniversary!! Talking about time and the passing of it! Here we are, ten years later with three kids who speak 3 languages. We have moved 10 times to four different countries, had many different jobs, bought and sold several houses, travelled the world, gotten to know fantastic people, experienced cultural differences and difficulties at times and now we are experiencing Ulricehamn. What the future will hold I don’t know but I do know that the last ten years were filled with many, many memorable moments!
Wishing you all lots of snow for Christmas!
Today we will celebrate Nils birthday with my parents and my sister and her family. We have landed in a wonderful winter landscape and Ulricehamn looks beautiful with its picturesque architecture, small snow covered streets and children pulling their slays. The dark falls early but all windows lit up in the dark and everyone has some kind of Christmas light in their windows. The girls would have like us to have the same type of stars as the majority of people but I am trying to convince them that being unique can also be something to strive for. Why is it that children find it so important to do things the same way as other people do?
Yesterday evening they celebrated Lucia at school to the great excitement of the children. We stood outside in the snow while the children sung Lucia carols and the parents were served warm Glögg. It was really cold but the engagement of the children made it a memorable moment. Unfortunately my phone camera did not cooperate!
At work I have been keeping busy with many applications and this week we had an international day for the politicians and higher civil servants which I think was appreciated. I feel that more and more people within the municipality are getting involved in international activities and projects which is great.
Tomorrow Jochem and I are heading for Kronovalls slott (a castle in the south of Sweden). It is not only five years since Nils was born! On the 14th of December it is our 10th wedding anniversary!! Talking about time and the passing of it! Here we are, ten years later with three kids who speak 3 languages. We have moved 10 times to four different countries, had many different jobs, bought and sold several houses, travelled the world, gotten to know fantastic people, experienced cultural differences and difficulties at times and now we are experiencing Ulricehamn. What the future will hold I don’t know but I do know that the last ten years were filled with many, many memorable moments!
Wishing you all lots of snow for Christmas!
Wednesday, December 3, 2008
Forbidding the use of snus in Ulricehamn???
How much does living abroad affects you? I guess that the longer you stay somewhere and the more integrated you get the more “their” ideas will become “your own” ideas. I felt quit Swedish living abroad but being back I notice that my ideas often are very much mine. Sweden is not as liberal as I thought and people are much less critical then the Dutch. If Big brother tells you that this is how you should live your life most Swedes go – OK! A Dutch person would do the opposite and would interpret the rule to fit their own ideas of how society should be run (which sometimes can be just as annoying!).
A few weeks ago I wrote about the strange adult film policy we have here in the municipality. I am not allowed to stay in a hotel while on a conference where there is a possibility to watch adult films as this can give me the wrong idea about women and sexuality???? (9th of October – “Emancipation and adult films” in this blog). Now the next strange policy is on the agenda! Some people want to ban the right for people working for the municipality to use any form of tobacco. Well, before we welcome this idea (which many people seem to do!) we need to decide what we mean by tobacco and question if and why we need to add new regulations. In situations where use of a substance may affect bystanders, regulations - such as in the case of smoking - should be enacted to protect the bystander without denying the individual's choice to use the substance. Smoking and non-smoking areas in public places are a prime example of this. It is already forbidden to smoke in any public building in Sweden so we do not need any new laws in this area. However, the policy discussed in Ulricehamn is not only looking at smoking or other drug abuse but want to forbid the use of snus.
Snus, a Swedish tobacco product, is a moist powder product that is consumed by placing it under the upper lip for extended periods of time. It contains nicotine and since the indoor smoking ban was put into place in Sweden in 2005, sales of snus has increased dramatically. You can use snus without it affecting anyone else and recent studies from Umeå University in Sweden have shown that no carcinogenic effects can be attributed to snus. Using snus does not increase your chance on getting cancer. In fact WHO acknowledges that Swedish men have the lowest rate of lung cancer in Europe, partly due to the low tobacco smoking rate.
Why should we as municipality forbid people to use a product that is not dangerous to the user and does not affect bystanders? How much freedom can you take away from an individual and don’t we want people that take responsibility of their own actions?
Some people will choose to use their freedom to engage in activities that go against our personal values. It is a great temptation to use our democratic rights to try and enshrine our own personal values - whether they come from religious or humanistic origins - in the laws of a nation or as organisation. However, we can use other means to fight for the ideas we believe in. Freedom of choice, as long as it does not infringe on another's rights, is something to treasure!
A few weeks ago I wrote about the strange adult film policy we have here in the municipality. I am not allowed to stay in a hotel while on a conference where there is a possibility to watch adult films as this can give me the wrong idea about women and sexuality???? (9th of October – “Emancipation and adult films” in this blog). Now the next strange policy is on the agenda! Some people want to ban the right for people working for the municipality to use any form of tobacco. Well, before we welcome this idea (which many people seem to do!) we need to decide what we mean by tobacco and question if and why we need to add new regulations. In situations where use of a substance may affect bystanders, regulations - such as in the case of smoking - should be enacted to protect the bystander without denying the individual's choice to use the substance. Smoking and non-smoking areas in public places are a prime example of this. It is already forbidden to smoke in any public building in Sweden so we do not need any new laws in this area. However, the policy discussed in Ulricehamn is not only looking at smoking or other drug abuse but want to forbid the use of snus.
Snus, a Swedish tobacco product, is a moist powder product that is consumed by placing it under the upper lip for extended periods of time. It contains nicotine and since the indoor smoking ban was put into place in Sweden in 2005, sales of snus has increased dramatically. You can use snus without it affecting anyone else and recent studies from Umeå University in Sweden have shown that no carcinogenic effects can be attributed to snus. Using snus does not increase your chance on getting cancer. In fact WHO acknowledges that Swedish men have the lowest rate of lung cancer in Europe, partly due to the low tobacco smoking rate.
Why should we as municipality forbid people to use a product that is not dangerous to the user and does not affect bystanders? How much freedom can you take away from an individual and don’t we want people that take responsibility of their own actions?
Some people will choose to use their freedom to engage in activities that go against our personal values. It is a great temptation to use our democratic rights to try and enshrine our own personal values - whether they come from religious or humanistic origins - in the laws of a nation or as organisation. However, we can use other means to fight for the ideas we believe in. Freedom of choice, as long as it does not infringe on another's rights, is something to treasure!
Tuesday, December 2, 2008
Life is full of miracles!
Despite lack of oxygen little Siem is doing better day by day as well as his mother. Lots of kisses to Barbara, Roel and little Siem!!! Enjoy!
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